That’s because you-the rider-has more control over the pace and angle, so you can cater to your own sweet spot.Ĭowgirl is also super versatile, McDevitt says, which should alleviate some of the intimidation that being on top might bring. It’s one of those popular, classic positions-one that actually gives vulva owners a chance at orgasm, says Jill McDevitt, PhD, resident sexologist at CalExotics and author of Sex Positions for Every Body. The wild, wild cowboy aesthetic might be trendy right now, but one thing that never goes out of style? The cowgirl sex position.Įven if you haven’t given it a spin in the bedroom, you’ve likely heard of it.